Don't most people REALIZE that everyone has to do what is best?

for them and their children, REGARDLESS, what others may say...(.the nosy nellies)...geez!!!...i mean didn't they do what they wanted?...that is a yes, i would say...why do they TRY to get you to do what they want???...that is ridiculous!!..oh boy!!..Even after you say.."well, I'll decide"...or thanks for the suggestions, but I'LL SEE...are they NOT listening???/